Help your child eliminate the need for goggles, a nose clip, and ear protection.
Is your child comfortable in the shallow end of a swimming pool? Can he easily put his face in the water for at least ten seconds, front float for at least five seconds independently, back float for at least fifteen seconds unaided, and roll and retrieve objects from the bottom?
If he can do all of these with the aid of a nose clip, goggles, and/or ear protection, it's time to wean him off these crutches.
If your child feels he's not ready to give up this protection yet, don't force it (especially if he's only four). But there's no harm in a little encouragement. Sometimes ending up in the water is out of our control — to avoid a panicked situation, your child needs to be able to perform these skills without the extra gear. You can start in a bathtub or on the steps of a swimming pool.
How to wean your child from the nose clip
Demonstrate first. While sitting in a bathtub or on the steps, hold your nose closed with your thumb and index finger. Take a breath and hold it (fill your cheeks with air — "look at my balloon face"), put your face in the water, let go of your nose for a couple of seconds or more, hold your nose again, then take your face out.
Now have your child try it with his "balloon face." (If he's not willing, these games might motivate him.) Even a split second is fine — as long as he doesn't panic, he'll probably be okay. Then challenge him to lengthen the time.
If water is going up his nose, have him blow bubbles with his nose, or hum when his face is in the water — humming automatically pushes air out of the nose.
Blowing bubbles with the nose
Try humming above the water first: have your child close his mouth and hum. Make sure he begins to hum before he puts his face in, continues humming while his face is in the water (blowing bubbles with his nose), and doesn't stop until his face is safely out.
Even though it seems simple, I still see bubbles coming from the mouths of some students because they aren't closing their mouths tightly enough. It's a challenge for some — many children can hold their breath, or just blow bubbles with their mouth, and still keep their noses happy. There's no one right way; it's personal preference. But ultimately, learning to blow bubbles with the nose is necessary for formal swimming strokes.
Once your child gets the hang of going face-first without a nose clip, have him practice all his skills without it. He may still find rolling over without a nose clip a challenge — even I get a little water up my nose sometimes. There will be times it just can't be avoided.
Freedom from the goggles
Your child doesn't have to give up goggles altogether, but it's a good idea to be comfortable without them — so that if he ended up in the water unexpectedly, he wouldn't panic.
In a bathtub or on the steps, have him practice putting his face in with his eyes closed (no goggles). When he's ready, have him open and close his eyes like a blink. He'll probably feel a slight stinging that disappears soon after. Encourage him to try opening his eyes for a couple of seconds — but don't force it; try again another day and set goals to lengthen the time.
Being independent of goggles gives him more freedom in the water. Goggles still have their place, though — they help you see clearly underwater, and some swim schools require them.
Time to eliminate the ear protection
You might not even need to help with this — he may simply forget about it one day and start swimming without it. Let your child decide when he's ready to give up the ear swim cap, swimming headband, or ear plugs.
Check in now and then to see if he'll put an ear lobe in the water. Encourage one whole ear with motivational games: have him hold the edge of the pool, turn his head to one side, and lower it into the water; if he's happy, try the other ear. If all goes well, encourage him to submerge his whole head.
Most of my ear-sensitive students only need ear protection when they swim or float on their back — they don't like how the water tickles their ears. Reassure your child that it's okay to have water in his ears while swimming: it won't hurt him, and it goes away as soon as his head is out.
How to prevent swimmer's ear
I have an excellent little home remedy. Since I've been following this regimen, I haven't had a single ear infection.
Here's what I do:
- Empty one of those little bottles of ear-drying drops and replace the contents with 1 tablespoon of white vinegar and 1 tablespoon of rubbing alcohol. (I reuse the same container over and over.)
- Administer 5 drops in each ear every time I get out of the pool. No need to lie down for 5 minutes — just 5 drops in each ear, and that's it.
Pediatrician Dr. Sears recommends the same procedure.
Important — do not place alcohol into an already sore or infected ear; it will be very painful. If your child has swimmer's ear and gets water in it, use just white vinegar.
(There's an Australian product called Aqua Ear with the same basic ingredients, but its label says it's not recommended for children under 3. I haven't found a similar product in the US.)
This home remedy has been a game-changer — and this is coming from someone who spends 5 to 7 hours a day, 5 days a week, in the pool.
Where do we go from here?
If the nose clip is now a thing of the past, breath control is an appropriate next step. Otherwise, I'd recommend your child learn how to propel through the water.
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